Sunday, May 24, 2026

here are a couple of memorial day stories. memorial day had a rocky start, because half the country didn't care for the union soldiers, and even had their own day to memorialize their own. there was a movement to make memorial days, and "keep" them, but it was different in different places and they even picked different days until they could all settle on the one we have now.

i lived in a small town in southern illinois that claimed to have the first one, but apparently there are a lot of towns like that, and its memorial day was clouded by the fact that there were lots of southern sympathizers in the area and people felt like john a logan was trying to lead them in a direction they didn't feel unified in going. he held his ceremony in this one cemetery practically doowntown. today there are one-way streets on either side of it and it's kind of lost in modern-world traffic. but that there, we used to say, was where they had the first memorial day service.

i had a great grandmother who was big on keeping memorial day. they wouldn't let her speak at her college (hillsdale college) because she was a woman, but she wanted to be a public speaker, so she made a living reciting civil war poetry at veterans' encampments. it helped that she was quite beautiful, but she would recite this poetry and all the drunk veterans would start hooting and hollering like crazy. she became attached to the veterans and when she needed a serious topic to expound on she would start in on keeping memorial day. we should always remember what we fought and died for, she would say, and in this case it was equality and freedom for everyone. she'd get wound up but would always have perfect elocution.

her biggest performance was one night in minneapolis where she recited without a mic in a crowded venue, and stole the show. she wss good at public speaking and knew how to get a crowd wound up. she commanded respect and spoke strongly but plainly. the fact that she was beautiful, and the veterans were generally a little drunk, usually worked in her favor. when it didn't she knew how to handle it.

one thing about civil war veteran encampments was that because a huge number of people had died, they always took time to remember some of those. we didn't have too many big wars for about fifty years, but in world war one (the great war) everyone went, and again lots of them died. now it was the whole country. now when they wanted to remember those who died, everyone was behind it, and they had no trouble making it a national holiday. everyone had long ago forgotten those services where. they tried to remember the civil war vets, way back when the country was just trying to forget the whole thing.

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Beasts of Ayutthaya

Beasts of Ayutthaya

Three retellings of Beauty and the Beast

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A beautiful young woman falls in love with a beast - what could possibly go wrong? These three tales explore that question, in the light of Disney's classic animation and the original 1740 tale, along with a few other variations. It seems it's more common than you think. Beasts can be charming, handsome in their own way, intelligent, loyal, fiercely protective....yet they can kill without hesitation or guilt. They may of course turn into a prince - but is that so great? Visit 18th century Siam (Thailand) for these variations. Be Our Guest, White Elephant, and The Halberd give you some idea of the importance of elephants and tigers in ancient Thai culture, and tell tales that are worth comparing to the tales we know.

Saturday, May 09, 2026

Monday, May 04, 2026

nice, fine thunder-boomer out there, with bright lightning, big huge thunder that makes the dogs bark, flooding roads, the whole works. driving out to my son's, in a town about two miles away, i almost got out of it, since it was kind of centered in our town, and there was still a kind of eerie daylight on the edges of it for a while. but back in town, in my own house, it really let loose, and the puppies got nervous.

i've been watching for it and actually doing some gardening, and that's very gratifying since it seems to be a built-in instinct to do gardening right before the rain, whether you will actually get any banefit from said gardening or what. you get out there, you pull weeds, the rain pours on everything you didn't pull, and lots of it is very happy that you got rid of all that competition, and it's ready to come up on its own now.

gardening of course leaves me a little stiff and a little dirty, but all that will wash off in the evening shower.

a big day on the blogs, as you might know, this is the main one, over 4800 visited last month alone, welcome to all the visitors, and since you're rolling in, and maybe even reading this, let me just say, i'm a writer with lots of books on amazon, i get writer's block frequently as i've got now, i always seem to be able to ramble on, here, so i do, and finally, i use all small letters to emphasize that it's not pored over, perfected, fact-checked, or any of that, it's just rambling. because i do it more or less entirely for my own purposes that's why it's survived so long, look at that template, there's all kinds of stuff on here. not the least of which is pics of my family carefully concealed so if someone swipes the picture, they won't swipe the name with it. i am very jealously protective of my family but at the same time couldn't live if i didn't have some kind of personal place where i could put their pictures, so this is it.

it's linked on to about 38 blogs that could be considered my system, many of them personal like this one with pictures and me rambling, some of them more on the professonal side. as i become a writer i try to make them more commercial, or possibly better at leading people to my books, but i'm incredibly bad at blatant commercialism and it's taken me years to get even close. nevertheless you can find many of my books here and many of my blogs are so aligned with the books themselves that of course you will find something to lead you to the books if you are looking for them.

all my friends and family seem to be going over to substack, it's the hot thing. if you have something really intelligent to say that's obviously the place. these days i don't have much intelligent to say except "buy my books!" and even that is just commercial yelling, sure to get drowned out in the marketplace. the closest i could get to substack is on my professional blog, which has been going on as long as this one, which also had over 4000 visitors last month, and which has all kinds of esl-related, language-related, interesting things. i however am retired so all i'm really saying these days is to curse the present regime and "buy my books" which is not as intelligent as I'd like. if i can say it, i'll put it over there.

for example i have this little thing about cursive. i have a great-great grandfather who made a very excellent cursive and made enough of it that i could easily put it in a book. i'm sitting here on "the story of my life" which is his rant about how the leaders of hillsdale college screwed him for nothing more than jealously hanging onto its endowment when times were tough; he was the treasurer and as such had sympathy for the rebuilding efforts after the great fire but still didn't believe the endowment should be used to rebuild. hillsdale at that time was not like the conservative place it is today, or rather, it had some common features but wasn't the same hillsdale we know now. anyway his cursive is gorgeous and i'm just sitting on it. time to make a book of cursive. rather, time to fix the printer with the good scanner.

more later, enough damage for one night.